WOW! 2019 already around the corner! I was looking through some of my posts from last year and I set the bar really high for myself throughout the ENTIRE year. I started A LOT of projects and FAILED at almost all of them. I analyzed what I did wrong. It was basically me reaching for the stars while working a 40-hour job and a full-time second job as wife and mother. I’m going to try and keep it simple. I want to be as successful as possible and ran across this article that suggests ‘why’ people are not successful with their resolutions.
First I needed to do some ‘house cleaning’ for my blog. My poor Fenton project didn’t really go anywhere but I didn’t delete the project altogether. I also removed ‘I Survived the A to Z 2018’ image from my sidebar. That was a brutal task but I proud of myself for completing it. I might participate again this year but that could be a no-no from the no-no resolution list. After the ‘house cleaning’ I read through the list again and need to make sure I do these things:
- Make goals specific and to include a time frame.
- Do not be overly ambitious (more than I can handle-umm…I’m notorious for that as Y’all well know)
- Believe that I can complete my goal
- Have some with instant gratification and/or results
- Have a record of progress (blog)
- Make the list
My goal list started out as basically every run of the mill resolution. I want to be happier, lose weight, reduce stress and be more creative. Sounds like a basic list that I would BOMB within a month. I already quit smoking and I’m currently working on losing weight. I decided to break things down a bit more:
- Work on being happy
-Unplug (no phone after 5pm)
-Do something that makes ME happy
- Meet my goal weight this year
-I have 22lbs to lose
-Eating healthy falls in this category (this isn’t a goal)
-Being more active also falls into this category (this isn’t a goal)
- Write More
-Produce one story 50 words or more a week
-Could be about anything
- Continue learning Asatru and Heathenism
-Continue reading and participating in my kindred’s book club meetings
-Study the Havamal
-Be mindful of Asatru dates of importance
-Participate more with Kindred events.
- Draw more
-Create a simple comic character
-Produce one comic weekly
-Keep it simple
- 365 Day Project
-Still, need to decide on a subject (HELP! I don’t know which one: create my own color pallets OR cell photography with the use of extra lenses. Opinions and thoughts are greatly appreciated!)
- Express me more…be more social-ish
-Express my feelings and speak more
This seems like a lot but when I break it down, it really isn’t. Instant gratification comes from the daily project which also serves as another objective-portfolio 365-day project that I need. Writing more is something that I have slacked on A LOT! I have a deadline and a minimum word count. Drawing more will fall under last years goal of creating my own little comic. The difference is that I have a deadline and some criteria such as KEEP IT SIMPLE! Nothing to elaborate and I’ve already started simple sketching planning my character. Finding my happiness is through ALL these goals. Continuing my Asatru Heathen path brings me peace and helps me work on mindfulness. Unplugging is something that is greatly needed and will help me unwind at night. All of this ALSO needs a schedule. Without one I’m surely going to fail.
What are your resolutions this year? How are you tackling them to achieve some level of success?